How to Deal With Jealousy
There are several
reasons why you may be feeling Jealous, but the how to deal with
jealousy does not change. If you are lacking in self esteem or feel threatened or fearful you may experience
feeling’s of jealousy, alternatively if you have a need to control situations or have the need to feel powerful
then you could also be feeling Jealous.
Learning how to deal with jealousy
means learning to self analyse the reasons why you are feeling this way.
More techniques on How to Deal with Jealousy
be found in these
Begin by communicating your
feelings about your jealousy to a loved one. They may have some suggestions on how to deal with
jealousy that you can use in your relationship.
The communication you
undertake with your partner will help them to understand how you are feeling and what makes you feel that
When learning how to deal with
jealousy remember that for your partner, being with a jealous person is very difficult because when you feel this
way you are showing signs of control and questioning their integrity which can be very frustrating and
Learning to communicate will
show them that you are willing to put this behaviour behind you. And your partner will feel more inclined to
help you learn how to deal with your jealousy.
Feelings of Jealousy often lead to
the exact opposite of what you are wanting – often driving your partner away into the arms of someone that is more
trusting and less controlling.
You first need to look at why
you are behaving in this manner - What is it achieving? Do you get a rush of power? Or a feeling of being
important and in control? Or alternatively does it make you feel needed?
Humans only do what works for
them – it may not seem obvious at first but if you take some time to analyse your feelings you
will find out what your reason is.
One of the best ways to do
this is to write down your feelings as you feel them and then come back later and relook at how you behaved (your
actions) and how you felt at the time.
Have you been hurt in the past and
the actions of your current partner are bringing up these feelings from the past. Or did you watch a similar things
as you grew up with in your family.
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Good self esteem is essential
when learning how to deal with jealousy. To help you build your self esteem, make sure you are thinking of
your positive points – ( yes we all have some ) just start thinking of these everyday and build on
Another tip is to find goals
that you want to achieve – think about ways that you can achieve it on your own. Success with this will
also help you to build your self esteem and will allow you to view see yourself as a more confident person and you
will flourish in with new opportunities.
Learning how to deal with
jealousy can also help you to set a good example for your children. They learn from what they see and live, so
by developing your skills now you could save your children from the same issues that you have and that will allow
them to have a great base to start their personal relationships with.
Like most issues in Relationships effective communication is the most important skill
you can learn to overcome your relationship and Jealousy issues.
So if you value your
relationship you will do whatever it takes to learn new skills to get over any issues you may face in order to live
in a loving relationship.
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